* I think I need to be satisfied with everything I am getting from them.
** I should not expect more from them and accept that there’s a difference in maturity that we have. Having a different level of maturity I cannot expect the level of loyalty or trust even companionship that is constantly on my mind.
*** I hate goodbyes, been to many already. Just the thought of it pains me bigtime! But despite this, I’ve come to realize that nothing is really permanent and if something or someone would leave you, it simply means that they have served their purpose, and it’s time to let go. It’s time to move on. It would only be a bonus for you if even the thing/person which have become a part of you, after serving its/his/her purpose, stays with you. In line with this, the following quote in Tuesdays with Morrie is noteworthy: “Learn to detach. Don’t cling to things because everything is impermanent. But detachment doesn’t mean you don’t let the experience penetrate you. You let it penetrate you fully. That’s how you are able to leave it.”
With all of these said, and to end this post, I can say that I’m quite over with the phase I’ve been through the past weeks. And I think the best part of the phase I’ve been through is that I’ve learned that we should enjoy the moments we have with people/things around us, while they are serving their purpose in our life.
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